友谊是柏拉图式的吗？朋友之间是否存在一个无形的空间？最好的朋友能相爱吗？许多婚姻是友谊的产物。虽然说柏拉图式的爱不存在是不正确的，但有时火花确实会飞溅。当没有边界和空间时，爱就会绽放。

你可能需要一段时间才能意识到友谊是如何以及何时变成爱情的。自然的进展可能不会突然，但朋友们往往会在情欲潜入他们心中的时候被抓住。

朋友一旦坠入爱河，就再也回不去了。如果爱情得到回报，这段关系可以达到一个新的亲密和激情水平。然而，如果爱情没有回报，友谊就会面临毁灭的危险。在这个阶段，要恢复到同样的柏拉图式友谊可能很困难。

如果你对你亲爱的朋友怀有一种秘密的激情，但你不确定他们的感受，那就小心行事。留意爱的迹象。他们的手在你手上停留的时间比平时长吗？即使你不看他们，他们也在看你吗？你可以通过一个普通朋友的帮助来了解他们对你的感觉有多强烈。

关于爱情和友谊的引语

如果你说不出话来，用这些友谊和爱情的名言微妙地表达你的感受。如果他们不确定，用温柔的友谊和情话帮助他们克服犹豫。与你的爱人分享你的梦想和幻想，让你的爱战胜它们。

卡里·纪伯伦

"It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations."

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"Just because you know someone doesn't mean you love them, and just because you don't know people doesn't mean you can't love them. You can fall in love with a complete stranger in a heartbeat, if God planned that route for you. So open your heart to strangers more often. You never know when God will throw that pass at you."

约翰·莱卡

"The reward for love is the experience of loving."

荷马

"The difficulty is not so great to die for a friend, as to find a friend worth dying for."

Cs刘易斯

"Unsatisfied desire is in itself more desirable than any other satisfaction."

梅森·库利

"Friendship is love minus sex and plus reason. Love is friendship plus sex and minus reason."

乔治·让·内森

"Love demands infinitely less than friendship."

琼·克劳福德

"Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell."

埃里希·弗洛姆

"Immature love says ' I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'"

弗朗索瓦·莫里亚克

"No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever."

埃德娜·圣文森特·米莱

"Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell."

vC安德鲁斯，风中的花瓣

"Angel, saint, Devil's spawn, good or evil, you've got me pinned to the wall and labeled as yours until the day I die. And if you die first, then it won't be long before I follow."

凯伦·凯西

"Truly loving another means letting go of all expectations. It means full acceptance, even celebration of another's personhood."

格式塔祈祷

"I do my thing and you do yours. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I and if by chance we find each other, then it is beautiful. If not, then it can't be helped."

查尔斯·狄更斯，《远大前程》

"I'll tell you...what real love is. It is blind devotion, unquestioning self-humiliation, utter submission, trust and belief against yourself and against the whole world, giving up your whole heart and soul to the smiter - as I did!"

歌德

"It is the true season of love, when we know that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved before us and that no one will ever love in the same way after us."

维克多·雨果，《悲惨世界》

"She loved with so much the more passion as she loved with ignorance. She did not know whether it was good or evil, beneficient or dangerous, necessary or accidental, eternal or transitory, permitted or prohibited: she loved."

奥维德

"Love and dignity cannot share the same abode."

阿尔伯特·施韦策

"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown again into flame by an encounter with another human being. Each of us owes the deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this inner light."

安德烈·佩沃斯特

"Platonic love is like an inactive volcano."

弗朗索瓦·德拉罗什福科

"No disguise can long conceal love where it is, nor feign it where it is not."

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"True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."

幸福

"I guess when your heart gets broken, you sort of start to see cracks in everything. I'm convinced that tragedy wants to harden us, and our mission is never to let it."