说再见并不容易。虽然改变是生活的一部分，但离别会让你流泪。你怎样才能做一个好的告别，你会用什么明智的语录？

告别并不意味着关系的结束

当你向一个要离开的朋友道别时，你不必觉得你的世界已经结束了。相反，你现在可以在一个新的维度上探索你的友谊。你有机会写长长的电子邮件，写满你日常生活的细节。你们可以通过贺卡、礼物，甚至是一次意外的拜访来祝对方“生日快乐”。当你遇到远方的朋友时，你会经历这样的欢腾，那种距离似乎很无聊。你的远方朋友可以是一个可靠的传声筒，他非常了解你，可以帮助你走出困境。离别也会使人的心变得更亲近。你会发现远方的朋友对你有更多的耐心和喜爱。

当离别结束了一段关系

有时，告别并不愉快。当你和你最好的朋友吵架时，你可能不会友好地分手。背叛的痛苦，失去亲人的伤害，以及悲伤，吞噬着你。你可能会感到迷失方向，暂时对你与人的日常交流失去兴趣。

如何在不伤害自己或他人的情况下结束一段关系

即使你可能会感到受伤或生气，但最好是友好地分手。承担内疚和愤怒的包袱是没有意义的。如果事情到了紧要关头，你知道和解是不可能的，那就结束这段关系，不要怀有恶意。表达你的悲伤，尽管不是指责。和蔼地说，握手告别。你永远不知道生活会发生什么变化，你不得不寻求疏远的朋友的帮助。如果发生这种情况，就让你的朋友在离别的时候对你说些好听的话。

告别之后，敞开心扉去结交新朋友

虽然告别可能结束一段关系，但它为新的关系打开了大门。每一片乌云都有一线希望。每一段破裂的关系都会让你更坚强、更聪明。你学会处理痛苦和心碎。你也要学会不要把事情看得太严肃。尽管相距遥远，但友谊仍能维系，并随着岁月的流逝不断增强。

用亲切的辞别之词向亲爱的人们告别

如果你发现自己不能说再见，就用这些告别语向你的亲人道别。提醒你所爱的人你与他们共度的宝贵时光，以及你对他们的思念。用甜言蜜语表达你的爱。不要让你的焦虑让你所爱的人对搬走感到内疚。理查德·巴赫（Richard Bach）正确地指出，“如果你爱某样东西，就让它自由；如果它回来了，它就是你的，如果它不回来，它就永远不是你的。”

告别辞

William Shenstone: "So sweetly she bade me adieu, I thought that she bade me return." Francois de la Rochefoucauld: "Absence diminishes little passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans a fire." Alan Alda: "The best things said come last. People will talk for hours saying nothing much and then linger at the door with words that come with a rush from the heart." Lazurus Long: "Great is the art of beginning, but greater is the art of ending." Jean Paul Richter: "Never part without loving words to think of during your absence. It may be that you will not meet again in this life." Alfred De Musset: "The return makes one love the farewell." Henry Louis Mencken: "When I mount the scaffold, at last, these will be my farewell words to the sheriff: Say what you will against me when I am gone but don't forget to add, in common justice, that I was never converted to anything." William Shakespeare: "Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again." Francis Thompson: "She went her unremembering way, / She went and left in me / The pang of all the partings gone, / And partings yet to be." Robert Pollok: "That bitter word, which closed all earthly friendships and finished every feast of love farewell!" Lord Byron: "Farewell! A word that must be, and hath been - A sound which makes us linger; - yet - farewell!" Richard Bach: "Don’t be dismayed by goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again after moments or lifetimes is certain for those who are friends." Anna Brownell Jameson: "As the presence of those we love is as a double life, so absence, in its anxious longing and sense of vacancy, is as a foretaste of death." A. A. Milne: "Promise me you'll never forget me because if I thought you would I'd never leave." Nicholas Sparks: "The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected. Maybe they always have been and will be. Maybe we've lived a thousand lives before this one and in each of them, we've found each other. And maybe each time, we've been forced apart for the same reasons. That means that this goodbye is both a goodbye for the past ten thousand years and a prelude to what will come." Jean Paul Richter: "Man's feelings are always purest and most glowing in the hour of meeting and of farewell." Jimi Hendrix: "The story of life is quicker than the blink of an eye, the story of love is hello, goodbye." Irish Blessing: "May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be ever at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and the rain falls softly on your fields. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the hollow of his hand." Lord Byron: "Let's not unman each other - part at once; All farewells should be sudden, when forever, Else they make an eternity of moments, And clog the last sad sands of life with tears." John Dryden: "Love reckons hours for months, and days for years and every little absence is an age." Henry Fielding: "Distance of time and place generally cure what they seem to aggravate; and taking leave of our friends resembles taking leave of the world, of which it has been said, that it is not death, but dying, which is terrible." William Shakespeare: "Farewell, my sister, fare thee well. / The elements be kind to thee and make / Thy spirits all of comfort: fare thee well." Charles M. Schulz: "Why can't we get all the people together in the world that we really like and then just stay together? I guess that wouldn't work. Someone would leave. Someone always leaves. Then we would have to say good-bye. I hate good-byes. I know what I need. I need more hellos."